Birthday Bashing

Ellis's birthday was yesterday, but basically he's been celebrating his birthday for the past three weeks. I explained to him that first, it was Marlowe's birthday, then his, then Daddy's (whose bday is in a couple of weeks). As soon as M's birthday was over three weeks ago (they are exactly three weeks apart), it has been E's birthday. This past weekend was the real party, though.

Saturday was birhtday party day. This is the first year that Ellis has truly grasped the anticipation of his birthday. After he went to bed on Friday night, I decorated the kitchen and set the table for his birthday breakfast. Marlowe woke me with plenty of time to prepare his chocolate chip pancakes before he woke up. So everything was perfect when he came out of his bedroom. Candles. Pancakes. Smoothies. It was like Christmas.

I found an album of his baby pictures and set that out for him. He loved looking at it. Pointing out all the pictures of baby Ellis. Finding the album was sort of an afterthought, but I thought it might be a fun tradition: birthday breakfast and looking at the baby pictures.

After breakfast we went over to the arboretum to say hello to the trains.

Then we went to Grammy's house for the big birthday. Grammy and Poppy gave Ellis his presents in the afternoon so that he could enjoy them for a little while. A watch and a bike. He looks so grown up!

We planned a fun party outdoors, but about 10 mins before the guests were due to arrive the low rumbling of thunder told us that it was time to move indoors. My optimism ran out. Thus began the most chaotic hour of my life. Kids. Screaming. Running. Inside. I suppose if I had had a clearer head, I could've done more constructive activities. But to be honest, I had been concentrating on optimism that it wouldn't rain. But then we ate and let them watch Tom and Jerry. Which turned out to be a good move, because then the adults could enjoy each other's company more. And the kids had a great time despite it all.

We had a few church friends over, kids Ellis has grown up with. But this year we invited a couple of school friends that he gets along well with. Both of these boys come from Deaf families, so we had a lot of fun hosting our first mixed Deaf/hearing party. As Ellis has gotten older, sometimes big parties overwhelm and he retreats to the basement. But with his Deaf friends, he was so much more vibrant. It's been amazing to watch him develop socially like this. How, at four years old, sharing a common bond of language is already so important.

On Monday, his actual birthday, I sent brownies to school. He came home wearing a Happy Birthday sticker on his shirt. And we took him out to eat for dinner. I am ready for birthday to be over. I think it'll take a little while for him to ease out of it. We may just end up with a summer of birthday.